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Divorce and Remarriage

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            Divorce is being a more and more common and accepted practice. However, the process and event of divorce can cause a lot of strain and stress on the family, and parents can often question, ‘is this really what is best for me and my family?’. Getting divorced is a decision that should not be taken lightly. It is important to understand the affects and reasons behind divorce in order to properly make those decisions.             One of the biggest differences in divorce today is that it is a lot less public and consequently embarrassing. If you wanted to divorce your spouse, you would have to go in front of a court and explain to them why you are trying for divorce. The reasons given fell under the 4 A’s: Abandonment, Addiction, Abuse, Adultery. Without one of these things, approval of the divorce usually was not granted. Today, couples may get divorces for many different reasons, they do not typically need to appear in front of court, and it is generally less expensive. Di

Parenting

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One of the most significant and scariest events in a couple’s live could be the process of becoming parents. As a young parent, there can be a lot of nerves, fear, and uncertainty. Now, as a 19-year-old college student, I have no experience being a parent. But I have found some helpful tips and ideas to follow that can ensure that communication between you and your child is clear, and bonds can remain strong, healthy, and trustful.               The first important thing to evaluate as a new parent or someone who plans on/is about to be a parent is the following question: What is my purpose as a parent? The answer to this question can be different for everyone, but here are a few good examples, to provide a safe environment to positively impact my child’s development as well as their growth and learning; to protect and prepare my children to survive and thrive in the world in which they may live. This last example is one thought up by Michael Popkin, the founder and president of Acti